Florida Basic Estate Planning Tips, Wills, Powers of Attorney

Summary of this article: The author, probate estate attorneyKim Douglas Sherman, explains probate in Florida. He tells how to avoid probatehow to avoid probate disputes and family feuds. He outlines how to make a flexible will to facilitate giving items of personal property and to anticipate changes in asset values.The article also covers probate fees and the time it takes for probate cases. Mr. Sherman discusses important documents: health care information releases, powers of attorney for healthcare, durable powers of attorney, and living wills. Also covered is the importance of these estate documents for young adults, and how to plan for your pet’s care after your death. Reading this article will give guidance for choosing an appropriate probate and estate lawyer in Florida

“Probate” explains Estate Lawyer, Kim Douglas Sherman is the court process that transfers property out of deceased person’s ownership. Probate takes some time and some money, so you would like to avoid probate. If you are married, everything that you own titled as “husband and wife” will pass automatically to the surviving spouse. For those assets, there is no need for a probate proceeding. And for the rest of your assets? Think about putting your real estate into joint ownership “with a right of survivorship.” For your financial accounts think about making the accounts “payable on death” to your intended heirs. These are easy, simple solutions that take very little effort on your part.

Probate lawyer, Kim Douglas Sherman, from Fort Lauderdale, Florida has been writing Last Wills for over forty years. How many times have you thought, “I should make a will?” Then there is the old quip about “nothing is so certain as death and taxes.” There are some simple things that you should know and do about planning your estate. They are not expensive or hard to do, either. Mr. Sherman notes that most people look at their Last Will and Testament as dealing with their anticipated estate in the big picture. The Will answers the questions about who is going to get the house, the car, and the remaining financial accounts? In Mr. Sherman’s years of general law practice, he has learned that of equal or greater importance to his clients making their Will is the little, but important, things. They are concerned about the family heirlooms, jewelry, artwork, knickknacks, collectibles, and pets.

Will-writing attorney, Kim Douglas Sherman refers to a useful Florida statute. Florida Statutes, section 732.515 allows a person to make a list of the items of personal property and the person, persons, or entities that they want to get those items. All you have to do is refer to the statute and the “list” in the Will and sign the list. The beauty of this provision is that you can change the list as many times as you want, and you do not have to make a new Will. The items must be described with reasonable certainty. The list provision in your Will can accommodate your giving some or all of those important items to your intended beneficiaries while you are still alive. The provision allows you the flexibility to sell or otherwise dispose of items if you choose to do that while you are alive. As you give things away, you just cross them off of your “list.” Keep your “list” together with your Will. It could not be easier, and yet the “list” has all of the enforceability that a Court can grant to your Last Will and Testament. If there is no list found, then it will be assumed that you did not make a list or that you destroyed the list.

In the Fort Lauderdale area, Probate Lawyer, Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire prepares wills for his clients. If you do not have a Will, you really should have your attorney prepare one for you. A Will makes sure that all interested parties know how you want your estate to go. It is not expensive to make a Will, and having a Will saves your beneficiaries both time and money. The most successful action to combat disputes over an estate is to make a valid, self-proving Last Will. In Florida, the will should be in writing, signed by the person making the will and signed by two witnesses, who are not beneficiaries named in the will. The signing should be done by the person making the will and the witnesses all at the same time with all seeing each other sign. The person making the will should clearly state to the witnesses that the document is their Last Will. To make the will “self-proving,” there should be an affidavit attached where the person making the will and the witnesses take an oath in front of a notary public, that the person making the will stated it was their will and that that person and the witnesses all signed in each other’s presence. A self-proving will can be admitted into the probate proceedings without having to bring in the actual witnesses into court. It is inexpensive and effective, you just need to make the time and use the services of an attorney like Mr. Sherman.

Estate Attorney Sherman clears up the confusion over the term “executor.” In Florida we used to call the personal representative the executor. The term executor is still used in many states. For Florida, the meaning of the terms “executor” and “personal representative” are the same. The personal representative of an estate has the same powers and duties as an “executor.”

You can avoid family feuds, according the Probate Lawyer Sherman, if you anticipate potential issues. Often people choose their oldest child to be the personal representative, also called an “executor”, of the Estate, but singling out one child can sometimes cause jealousy amongst the children. Sometimes people make all of their children co-personal representatives, thereby requiring them to act in concert. When you consider making these choices, you might also want to consider having a trusted independent person as your personal representative. If you want to make things easier on the beneficiaries after you are gone, make a list of the specific personal items that you want to go to specific people. As discussed earlier in this article on wills, consider inserting a “list” provision into your will. Having a list can avoid an ugly aftermath between beneficiaries over so-called family heirlooms. It is also advisable to ask your family and friends what specific items are important to them and provide that they are named to receive them.

Probate litigator Sherman advises that you should anticipate changes in your estate’s value during your lifetime when making specific monetary requests. If you use up your assets or they diminish while you are alive, it might have a material effect on how much is available to be distributed after your death. For instance, if at the time you make your will, you want a certain sum of money to go to your church, your friends, or relatives–what happens if there is not enough money in the estate in order to satisfy your wishes. You can avoid the problem, which often causes probate litigation, by having your will say that you want “the lesser of that sum or a specific percentage of your estate.” You can base the percentage on what your desired sum is in relation to the value of your assets at the time you make your will.

Fort Lauderdale Estate Attorney Sherman warns that unless you make your own pre-paid funeral plans or specify otherwise in your will, in Florida only your next of kin has the right to make funeral and disposition of remains. If you are aware of this Florida law, and are concerned that your “significant other” should have some rights in this regard, make sure to empower that person by making that provision a part of your will. Choosing the wrong person can cause resentment and disputes. Avoid having potentially huge charges against your estate for funeral and burial arrangements by making the plans yourself in advance of the need.

Avoid disputes causing probate litigation over the care of pets. In your Will, if you have a pet you should consider naming the person who should care for your cherished pet after you have gone, and provide that person with the funds to continue the care. Make sure to ask in advance if that person is willing to take on the responsibilities.


Mr. Sherman writes that the cost of probate in Florida is guided by statutes. There are laws which set forth the fees of the personal representative and the fees of the attorney for the personal representative. Florida Statutes, section 733.517 provides that a personal representative’s compensation, called a “commission,” is presumed a reasonable fee if it is 3% of the first million dollars of value of the estate administered, 2.5% of the next four million, 2% from five million to ten million, and 1.5% over ten million. These fees are for “ordinary services.” There is a provision in the statute to increase or to decrease the compensation at the request of any interested party based upon the facts and circumstances of the particular estate.

The attorney fees for the personal representative’s lawyer are controlled by Florida Statute, section 733.6171. It closely follows the compensation provided for the personal representative. A minimum reasonable fee is $1500 on the first $40,000 of assets under administration, $750 more up to $70,000, another $750 up to $100,000, and then 3% up to one million, 2.5% on the next two million, 2% on the next two million, 1.5% from five to ten million, and 1% over ten million. There are more attorney’s fees payable for extraordinary service, and just as with the personal representative’s fees, there is a statutory provision for increase or decrease depending upon the facts and circumstances of the estate.

People often want to know how much time does it take to complete a probate case in Florida. Probate Litigation Attorney, Kim Sherman, refers to the Florida Supreme Court and Administrative Rule, 2.085: “Judges and lawyers have a professional obligation to conclude litigation as soon as it is reasonably and justly possible to do so.” For probate cases, part D of the administrative rule provides the following time standards:
Uncontested, with no federal tax return– 12 months from issuance of letters to administration to final discharge.
Uncontested with federal tax return—12 months from the tax return due date to final discharge.
Contested—24 months from filing to final discharge.

Estate Lawyer Kim Douglas Sherman recommends a Durable Power of Attorney as a useful estate planning document to be used while you are alive. Ifyou do not have a spouse (or your spouse is infirm), in addition to a last will, you really should have four important documents for dealing with your estate, for use while you are still alive. First, have a Durable Power of Attorney. There is no reason to let the Court appoint someone or some entity unknown to you and that doesn’t know you either. A Durable Power of Attorney is an important legal document. By signing the Durable Power of Attorney, you are authorizing another person to act for you, the Principal, without any court supervision or approval. Each person you appoint to serve as your Agent should be someone you trust completely. The Durable Power of Attorney is a very powerful document designed to give the designated person or persons (your “Agent”) the ability to manage your financial affairs. The Powers of Attorney will be effective the moment you sign the form, and they will continue to exist while you are alive, even if you no longer have the capacity to manage your property.You have the right to revoke or terminate the Durable Power of Attorney at any time, so long as you are competent.When effective, the Durable Power of Attorney will give your Agent the right to deal with property that you now have or might acquire in the future.

Second, have a HIPAA compliant Release. Unless you have given such a release , the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 [HIPAA], prohibits disclosure of your medical information, even to those who you would want to be informed , such as parents, adult children, and significant others. FL estate attorney, Kim Sherman, says that with a properly signed form release, you authorize any doctor, physician, medical specialist, psychiatrist, chiropractor, health-care professional, dentist, optometrist, health plan, hospital, hospice, clinic, laboratory, pharmacy or pharmacy benefit manager, medical facility, pathologist, or other provider of medical or mental health care, as well as any insurance company and the Medical Information Bureau, Inc., or other health-care clearinghouse that has paid for or is seeking payment from you for such services (referred to herein as a “covered entity”), to give, disclose and release to the person(s) you designate, without restriction, all of your individually identifiable health information and medical records regarding any past, present or future medical or mental health condition, including all information relating to the diagnosis and treatment of HIV/AIDS, sexually transmitted diseases, mental illness, and drug or alcohol abuse. Additionally, the person(s) you designate shall have the ability to ask questions and discuss my protected medical information with the person or entity who has possession of the protected medical information even if you are fully competent to ask questions and discuss this matter at the time.

Third, have a Durable Power of Attorney for Healthcare. Mr. Sherman makes the point that this document will give the person or persons designated the power to make healthcare decisions when you are unable to communicate for yourself. Unlike the Durable Power of Attorney, the Healthcare Power of Attorney is not a grant of broad authority over many matters, instead it is limited and conditional. It is important to empower someone to give medical directions, when you cannot. The Power of Attorney for Healthcare is especially important for unmarried persons, old or young.

The fourth document recommended by Mr. Sherman is a Living Will. It directs how you want yourself to be treated if you are near death. Not only does the living will allow you to die with dignity, in the form currently being used here in Florida, you get to express your desire to have experimental methods used, to donate your still usable body parts, to donate your body to medical research, and to decline having your body subjected to autopsy. Most important, your living will allows you to empower the person or persons your chose to be able to direct the medical providers to pull the plug and give up the ghost.

Attorney Sherman advises that young adults need estate planning as well. For the young adults that you care about, encourage them to have a Healthcare Power of Attorney and a HIPAA compliant release, authorizing their parents to be informed and to assist.


To contact and learn more about Fort Lauderdale, Florida Estate Attorney, Kim Douglas Sherman, visit his website call (954) 489-9500.

Is Mr. Sherman a Florida probate, Florida estate lawyer near me?

 

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What is Collaborative Law?

Fort Lauderdale Collaborative Law Attorney, Kim Douglas Sherman, says: “The difference is all about the attorneys.”

“Yes,” you want a mature, peaceful parting.  Lucky for you, your spouse wants the same, but you have some differences on the resolutions of child rearing and child sharing, and the division of properties and debts.  You do not want the attorneys adding to the problems, making things more adversarial–taking aggressive positions as a way of impressing the parties with their knowledge and skill. The Collaborative Family Lawyer, Mr. Sherman points out, is pledged to an out-of-court resolution.  The Collaborative Family Lawyers sign a contract with the parties that restricts the lawyers from being the court lawyers if the collaboration should fail.  The family gets two lawyers trained to collaborate as the alternative to litigate. Collaborative lawyers, like attorney Sherman, bring into the effort other collaboratively trained professionals, like financial experts and mental health experts, to assist in a team effort to achieve satisfactory results.

 

Nurtured in the friendly atmosphere of Collaboration, with lawyers trained to bring about amicable resolutions, you can expect:

  • Lawyers who are very knowledgeable about family law.
  • Lawyers who are invested in providing the spouses and their family with the tools to achieve their own resolution, not a court-imposed edict.
  • Lawyers who will not encourage discord as a way to increase their fees.
  • Lawyers looking to preserve the family’s assets for the family.

 

Long after the lawyers are done with their part in the dissolution, the former spouses have to deal with the plan that they made and the way that they solved their issues.  It takes a smart, mature person to see the benefits that are gained by using Collaborative Family Law and its innovative, trained lawyers. The Collaborative Lawyers are the difference!  If you have questions or concerns about Collaborative Family Law in the Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida area, call Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire, at (954) 489-9500

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Collaborative Law Solves Dispute Over Adult Child.

Recently, I had a couple seeking a divorce and wanting to handle their disputes using the Collaborative Law Approach.  Simply put, “Collaborative Family Law” is an effective, pre-lawsuit team effort to resolve family law issues where the attorneys and spouses agree that the lawyers will not litigate, and the lawyers and other engaged professionals (mental health & financial) are trained to work together to solve the problems raised by the dissolution.

They had been married about thirty years and both had careers that had generated savings in addition to paying for a nice lifestyle.  The wife had a service business with substantial cash and the husband had a furniture business with both cash and inventory.  They owned a commercial building, a home, and a vacation home.  We were quick to agree on what property needed to be appraised; once values were agreed upon, a property division was achieved.  But this dissolution had an unusual problem.  The parties’ only son was in his twenties and he was troubled by repeated bouts of drug addiction.  The Family Courts generally do not provides remedies for the problems of dealing with adult children. The acrimony and blame over their son was blocking a resolution to long term family peace.  They did share an unfaltering love for their son, which lent itself to using the Collaborative Law Approach.

Nurtured in the friendly atmosphere of Collaboration, with lawyers trained to bring about amicable resolutions, the parents dealt with:

  • Continuing financial support
  • Continuing treatment.
  • Professional consultation.
  • Providing safe shelter, and
  • Providing response to calls for “help.”

Mental health professionals opinions were obtained and considered. Driven by their common love for their adult child, the parents used the Collaborative Law Approach to achieve a successful resolution.  If you have questions or concerns about Collaborative Family Law in the Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida area, call Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire, at (954) 489-9500

Same Sex Marriages Require Protection of Homestead Rights

Even though a home may be titled in the sole name of one spouse, the Florida Constitution protects the interest of the spouse who is not on the title to remain living in the home.  This may be a new concept to those lawfully wedded couples of the same sex.  I was recently retained to obtain a divorce for a couple of the same sex.  My client was selling her home, and her estranged spouse was required to provide an affidavit that the property was not her “homestead;” that she resided elsewhere.  The same client was purchasing a new home and obtaining a purchase money mortgage.  Her estranged spouse is going to have to sign on the new mortgage, even though she is not going to be living in the new home and will not be named on the title.  The reason for both is the spousal right of Homestead protected in Article X, Section 4 of the Florida Constitution.  Florida Statutes, Section 732.401 gives rights to remain in the home after the death of the title holder for the lifetime of the surviving spouse, therefore, the right must be recognized and properly extinguished by an appropriate legal document.

 

Based upon over forty years of experience as a real estate attorney in Fort Lauderdale, here are my suggestions regarding purchases, sales, and refinancing homes by same sex spouses:

  • Use a lawyer!
  • Be aware that your spouse will have a legal interest in any home in which they live with you, even though they are not named on the title.
  • Be aware that your spouse will have a legal interest in any home in which they live with you, even though you owned the home before you got married.
  • Consider what will happen to the home if one of the spouses dies or wants to sell.

 

Have your attorney prepare pre-nuptial or post-nuptial agreement between the spouses addressing the issues mentioned above and any other special matters. If you have questions or concerns about real estate and same sex spousal rights in the Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida areacall Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire, at (954) 489-9500 Please look at our qualifications set forth on our website.

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What is a Valid Will in Florida?

If you or someone you care about wants to express how they want their assets to be distributed at the time of their death, they should make a Last Will and Testament.  We call it simply, “a will.”
Florida law is very clear on the formalities required to make an enforceable will.  Florida Statutes, Section 732.502 sets forth the requirements:

The will must be in writing.  Oral wishes and oral wills are not acceptable.
The person making the will should sign it at the end, in front of at least two witnesses, and declare that it is his or her will.
The two witnesses should see the maker of the will sign, and the witnesses should sign at the end of the document while in the presence of the person making the will and each other.

No particular form of words is necessary to the validity of a will IF it is executed with the formalities required by law.  There are provisions in the statute for persons who cannot physically sign the will.  Take advantage and be aware that there is a statute that will allow the will to be self-proving, and therefore admissible in the Probate Court without having a sworn statement submitted by a witness to the signing of the will.

As I said in one of my prior blogs, based upon over forty years of experience as a probate attorney, take my suggestions regarding wills. Make a will, no matter what your age.  It is the surest way to assure that those who are important to you receive your bounty.  Use a lawyer to write your will; it is not expensive. Use a lawyer to oversee the signing of your will, because, as explained above, there are legal technicalities that must be followed to have an effective will. Keep your original will in a safe, fire-proof place, and tell the person who you want to be your personal representative of your estate where they can find the original will.

If you have questions or concerns about making a will or other important documents like Durable Power of Attorney, Healthcare Power of Attorney, or Living Wills in the Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida area, call Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire, at (954) 489-9500.  Please look at our qualification set forth at our website: ShermanLegal.com.  Do Not procrastinate.  Do Not let your relatives fight over your estate.  Do make your intentions clear.  Make a valid will and keep it safe!

 

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If you are Buying Real Estate with Someone Other than your Spouse, Have a Written Partnership Agreement.

When my clients are contemplating purchasing commercial or residential real property with another person who is not their spouse, there are many important issues for them to consider.  This blog will touch on some of the most important matters to be considered BEFORE PURCHASE.  When real estate transactions involve thousands of dollars, having a lawyer involved–before you sign any contract–is the smart decision to make.

 

Based upon over forty years of experience as a real estate attorney, here are my suggestions regarding real estate purchases by non-spouses:

  • Use a lawyer– BEFORE YOU SIGN TO PURCHASE!
  • Be aware that property that is jointly owned is subject to the claims of the other owner’s creditors.
  • Decide how the property will be used, who will maintain the property, and how will the expenses be paid.
  • Consider what will happen to the property if one of the owners dies or wants to sell.

 

Have your attorney prepare a written partnership agreement between the proposed co-owners addressing the issues mentioned above and any other special matters. If you have questions or concerns about buying real estate in the Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida area, call Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire, at (954) 489-9500.  Please look at our qualifications set forth on our website: Remember that once you have purchased property with someone who is not your spouse, it may be too late to address problems and issues that could have and should have been anticipated.  Get a lawyer to prepare a partnership agreement, before you purchase.

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Attorney Sherman Teaches Civics Class.

Recently, as one of the Florida Lawyers participating in the Florida Supreme Court, Justice Teaching Program, I was invited to teach a civics class to students in fifth grade through high school.  The class was presented with a lesson called, “The Invaders.”  It is brilliantly designed to immerse the students in current issues and their relationship to the United States Constitution.

 

Based upon the lesson plan and my forty years of experience as a trial lawyer, I presented and discussed the first ten amendments to the U.S. Constitution, called “The Bill of Rights.”

  • We talked about the most basic rights, like religious freedom, free speech, possessing guns, free press, jury trials, sanctity of the home, and the prohibition against cruel and unusual punishment.
  • We discussed why each of these rights were important to the founders of our country.
  • I presented news articles relating to those rights in today’s world.  For example, how religious rights were restricted and controlled in many countries, and how our Supreme Court found that citizens’ rights to possess guns could not be infringed by gun control legislation.
  • The students were then asked to each chose five rights to keep, to the exclusion of the other rights. They were next put into groups of five, and the group was asked to choose a spokesperson and the five rights that the group, as a whole, chose to keep
  • Finally, the spokesperson from each group, reported to the assembly about which rights the group chose and why.

 

At the end of the class, the students had done all of the things that our citizens should do.  They became informed on pertinent issues, they voted on their choices, and they elected their representatives.  What a marvelous lesson in civics.  If you have questions or concerns about Civil Law or Civil Litigation in the Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida area, call Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire, at (954) 489-9500.  Please look at our qualifications set forth on our website.

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Beware of the ‘Standard’ Contract!

I am often asked to review contracts for the sale of residential real estate–homes, condominiums, and cooperative units.  There are many forms of contracts in use, but beware of the contracts that are called “standard contracts.”  Just because a contract is printed, from a computer or otherwise, does not mean that its terms are required or applicable to your transaction.  Many times there are conflicting terms that can cause your contract to be unclear and to be unenforceable.  If you want to get the benefit of your bargain, do not be talked out of using a lawyer.  When real estate transactions involve thousands of dollars, having a lawyer involved–before you sign any contract–is the smart decision to make.

 

Based upon over forty years of experience as a real estate attorney, here are my suggestions regarding real estate contracts:

Use a lawyer–BEFORE YOU SIGN ANY CONTRACT!

  • If you are selling, have a provision that makes the Buyer purchase the property “as is.” This means the burden is on the Buyer to conduct a due diligence and necessary inspections. However, sellers must disclose defects that they know about.
  • If you are buying, make sure to have the right to conduct complete inspections and then get those inspections done by skilled inspectors.
  • A real estate broker or salesperson is interested in making the deal close, so that they can get paid. Your attorney’s job is to see that the terms of your contract are the same as the deal that you intend. That is a BIG difference.

 

Contracts should contain the terms that exactly match your agreement.  Beware of the so-called “standard” contract; cross-out what you do not want and put in what you want.  Just because it is printed does not mean that it cannot be amended.  If you have questions or concerns about signing a real estate contract in the Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida area, call Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire, at (954) 489-9500.  Please look at our qualifications set forth on our website. Remember that once you have signed the contract, you are bound by its terms.  Get a lawyer to review the contract before you sign.

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A Power of Attorney cannot be used after the person has died.

This week I was contacted by a former client who presented a serious legal problem.  She had been living with her special friend, in the home that was in the friend’s sole name.  The friend had made a will leaving everything to my client.  Suddenly, the friend was stricken by a life-ending illness and was not expected to survive more than two days.  The friend was comatose and unable to act for himself. My client was distraught and more so, because she was afraid that creditors of the dying friend would take the house and remove her.  After a proper review this Probate Attorney in Fort Lauderdale, Kim Douglas Sherman, discovered that the dying friend had properly prepared and signed a Durable Power of Attorney that authorized my client to take any legal action that the dying friend could take.  Attorney Sherman explained that a Durable Power of Attorney was only effective while the person who granted the Power of Attorney was alive.  Immediate action was required.  A deed to the home was prepared, signed by the client using the Power of Attorney, and the deed was filed in the public records before the death of the person who granted it.  There were other important issues to be considered such as the delay the filing of an estate would cause, the tax consequences related to the transfer price, the claims of potential creditors, and the effect of the transfer on the existing mortgage.  But, the point of this blog is to make you aware that a Power of Attorney must be used, if at all, BEFORE, the death of the person who granted the Power.

 

Here are several important things to consider:

  • Have a will prepared and make sure that it is properly signed and witnessed.
  • Understand that to be effective, a Durable Power of Attorney must be in a proper legal form, must be properly signed, witnessed, and notarized.
  • Be aware that under the current applicable Florida law, a Power of Attorney cannot be contingent–that is– it can be used immediately by the person to whom the power is granted.
  • In order to accomplish an effective management of assets and debts when a person is unable to act for themselves, make a plan and talk to a Wills and Power of Attorney Lawyer.

 

If you have questions or concerns about Wills or Power of Attorney Law in Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida, or you need a probate law attorney to discuss your legal options, call Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire at (954) 489-9500.  Please look at our qualifications set forth on our website.  Do not let yourself or your loved ones face uncertainty.  I look forward to helping you and those you love.

 

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In Divorces, Look out for the Moving Target.

This past week I spent a considerable amount of time in an effort to help my client to see that there was not going to be any winning through the court system.  She was emotionally drained and physically ill from years of disputes with her former husband.  What became clear, from our point of view, was that the cost of the litigation was going to eat up and exceed the very best outcome which the Court would decree.  To her credit, my client listened to the advice of this Fort Lauderdale area divorce attorney with forty-years of experience, Kim Douglas Sherman, and she made the practical and proper decision to move forward with a bitter settlement.  To our surprise, having met the terms of the settlement as it had been communicated by the former husband’s counsel, new terms and conditions were raised by the former husband.  Even in agreeing to the original terms, the former wife was presented with terms that disemboweled the meager benefit of the potential bargain. After a long weekend, a re-analysis revealed that there was a new basis for agreement.  While the negotiation continues, the fight goes on–which means that everyone will lose, except for the attorneys.

 

Here are suggestions to assist in negotiations to avoid the “moving target”:

  • While it is enticing to negotiate verbally, obtain written terms at each step of the negotiations.
  • Make sure to take the time to consider each offer before responding.
  • Be practical and consider the costs, both financial and emotional, to failing to settle.
  • At the earliest opportunity try to be clear on what the other side actually needs to reach an agreement.

 

If you have questions or concerns about Divorce Law in Fort Lauderdale, Broward County, Florida, or you need a family law attorney to discuss your legal options, call me, Kim Douglas Sherman, Esquire at (954) 489-9500.  Please look at our qualifications set forth on our website.  Be clear about the terms of potential proposed settlements and avoid the moving target.  I look forward to helping you and your family.